He should ask God what to do. There is no other way. Otherwise, we would have a one month decision and afterwards fall much worse than would before. This is type of work of the enemy when we start something without God. Without Him we can do nothing. Nothing! We should from where we are, from our helplessness and not from the height of our wishes. A true Christian makes the sign of the Cross all day long, in every place and moment of his work. Why? Exactly in order to start with God and with His power from the point of our helplessness. We are intrigued that we cannot do such a thing. This is sign of unbelief. We should be intrigued that it often crosses our mind to do something without God’s help.

Therefore, my brother, make the sign of the cross and say: ‘Give me, Lord, a decision!’. And never think more if we or not decided, but always cry to the Lord to be with Him and in Him!