You need to be an example of kindness one for the other.

You need to be one for the other an example of kindness, abstinence, serenity, honesty, diligence and obedience to God’s will, patience and faith. Help one another, take care of each other and cover your shortcomings with love (Saint John of Kronstadt).

(Translation from: Cum să întemeiem o familie ortodoxă, 250 de sfaturi înţelepte pentru soţ şi soţie de la sfinţi şi mari duhovnici, Editura Sophia, Bucureşti, p. 81)