But who can say they found the other? Under this aspect we do not match even with our brother, with whom we were raised and we developed in the same family.

“To see if we match…” This is what young people say today, when they want to get married. And they avoid marriage under this pretext, or even they live in sin to see if they match. But who can say they found the other? Under this aspect we do not match even with our brother, with whom we were raised and developed in the same family. We cannot find even ourselves! (How many times we say something and we repeat it but tomorrow we do things in a different way?) And we think we will match with a stranger?

We should balance things very well, because every person has a unique personality. There are six billion people and there will be six billion different personalities.

(Translation from: Arhimandrit Vasilios Bacoianis, Căsătoria, Editura Tabor, Bucureşti, 2010, p. 20)