Be in a spiritual communion with God through prayer, through the longing of the heart, love, and He will reveal His will into your heart and will show you the path of life. Do not give to no one your freedom, as you are the only responsible for it. In case of difficult situations, call in your heart the only advisor that will never fail – your God, and He will give you wisdom and teach you what to do and who to follow!
For those of you who wish to have a child “by force!” Leave it to God, because he knows when the right time will come. Some people, even if their life is not very ordered from a spiritual point of view, “push” God to give them a child when they want. In His love, God gives them their desired child but with time they will see that, growing up, he becomes anxious because he inherited the passions of his parents, and they, themselves will fall into a greater state of anxiety, because they have conceived a child who resembles them in their passions, since they did not tried to purify themselves before asking for a child.